Saturday, October 23, 2004
everyone has relationships in college that go on for a few months and then just fall apart, in the way that these things do. sometimes the end hurts bad, sometimes it's no big deal, sometimes it's a pleasant relief, but mostly it's nothing that a few days of sitting on a friend's couch with a box of tissues and a bottle of gin can't cure.
something about relationships make me feel really puzzled. people fall into and out of love. and i have seen so many of my close girlfriends crying and pouring their hearts out when they broke up with their
jerkist-cum-bastardrism-run-in-their-blood boyfriends. at some point in the relationship, one will tell the other party that
i love you and some even add in the word
forever. obviously not considering that they are making a promise that is sucha a deadly sin to me.
even in marriage, since couple who have been married for 40 years can file for divorce. marriage which is suppose to be a commitment for a lifetime, seems so distant and fragile.why are we entering the era of uncertainty? well, not to sound like a men-hater - i have guys who have
bitch-chified ex girlfriends too. but what gives them the courage to trust love again even after such a
or many (for some of you out there) detrimental and painful experiences? well, i can't comment much on this cause i have not been i a relationship before. is it that the wonderful memories that you had with the once-special-someone is worth all the pain? or... i don't know.. just wondering...
i made it known at 7:45 PM
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